It is something you need to put a stop to immediately. All of the above are great sugestions on trying to put her out of your life. I do know however that in the USA, restraining orders are done through the court & you have to be threatened physically before they will really let it go through. That doesn't mean that you can't report them however. I'm sure in the UK, they may have different laws & handle things differently than here. The answering machine is the best solution to the calling...I always screen my calls & won't answer unless I know who it is.

Hope you solve this soon,
Debbie