I need to be reassured all the time that I am loved...I'm sometimes I'm scared that my bf doesn't love me and is only with me because it is convenient. My bf is a reserved person and isn't the type to say I love you. We see each other once a week. I see him and then sleep over and then he drops me off at my house in the late afternoon the next day. He lives about 45 minutes away from me. Sometimes I complain about how we don't see each other enough...but then he reassures me and says well how can we see each other when we are both so busy and live far apart. Yesterday was my birthday and he buys me things that are really thoughtful and expensive...this I guess indicates that i am special to him...but how special??...He says he always enjoys our time together and doesn't get bored....he chooses places to go that I want to go to. In the morning he always brings me breakfast and pampers me when I'm at his house. He treats me nicely and we talk everyday on the phone....It's been a year that we've been together....what does this mean to guys???...should I as him where this relationship is going...I feel it's too soon to be discussing this....heelllp...I really like him...but I'm afraid of tieing him down and making feel that he has to make a commitment to me