I always knew i never wanted kids ever since i was 11 y/o.. i didnt want to pass on my issues and mental problems to another innocent human being just to fulfill a "wish" to be a mother..it sucks to know that a lot of people dont learn from their mistakes..and keep "hoping" that having a kid would give them a chance to reinvindicate themselves..from a horrible past..but most of the times it doesnt happen that way..kids are not "guinea pigs" to make out for what were missing in our lives, nor theyre substitues for loneliness and someones empyness...having a kid its a HUGE RESPONSABILITY!! and i think people should take a course or trainingaon how to raise a child!!!!!
Good luck on your surgery..and im with you on not having kids..
i always knew..and havent resented my desicition ever since..im happy i did it..i saved my own at least..from this misery..thanks! bye!!