Hi there, nowheretorun
In this part of your reply, "I see what you're saying DE... some forms of mental illness even make proper grammer an impossibility" (I'm sure you meant grammar? ha!ha!)

This is close, but is not "exactly" ALL of the point I was trying to get across, there are people WITHOUT any mental illness that just may need a "shoulder" or some form of support that have come here and may have a PHYSICAL disability that limits their typing, and may make typo errors, thus being viewed as "mispellings", in consideration of those members/visitors I feel there should be some clearence in regards into all the "rules of proper writing" given. . . and then hey who said this website was about writing composition, it is a MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT site right?
Again, I see all of your points, but there are some considerations we need to take if this is to be a "support" type of site.
Best wishes,
that we can all come to a happy medium here someday soon
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON