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June ? I hope ya not mind me replying here .......
BTW ,, when I read the part about her being the * payee * >> It put my memory in gear , and I remembered that you spoke of this once before [ that I noticed and read ] ,,,,, I hate it for ya that you in ~pull hair out land~ . ,,,
Briefly I give you my own * cut ties * quip .
First time I cut it off for 13 years ,, then gave it another shot .........same personality still there .
Waited another 19 months ,,,,, One week she brought some boxes over to Donnas' and mines home ,,, I had told my mom the day before that I would be there Saturday [ the next day from at this described moment ] .
Well that got her into >> not soon enough tirade , [ even though earlier it was an agreed upon time ] .
yes , I am going somewhere with this . :P
Finally she gave me the * bird / finger * ,, and I said " I sure hope your proud of yourself for being able to count to one "
What did I learn ?
That even though this is my mom , I have to deal with her as I would an old friend ,, except the idiocy ,, and focus on her [ as she believes ] interests and see if you can't find that even your Mom has other interests other than making your life miserable . eeeerrrrrrmmmmmmmmm???
You can Only Hope !
Hope you can , Take Care June .
WMD.
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