Thanks you two,
What both of you had mentioned is exactly what I need to do. In the back of my mind I knew that but I hate to hurt people's feelings so I know it's going to be really hard for me to tell him that it's not going to work.

I have a hard time saying I am not attracted to you or there just is no chemistry, I feel like that will hurt him but in the same sense I can't pretend something is there when it is not.

Poor guy, he is a really great guy, and really sweet. I was wanting for it to work because he is all those other things that I need as a person, I felt safe with him. I knew he would be good to me ect. but if there is no attraction there just isn't.

I also wanted to be really careful as well, because I have a pattern of breaking off with guys when they get close. I have reasons for that that I am working on in therapy right now, but in this case I truly was not attracted from day one.

Thanks again for you advice!