I talked to him about it a little bit. I said...do you love me are you happy with me...we've been dating a year now. He said..."do you think I'm stupid enough to stay in a relationship i don't like of course I care a lot about you." My phone kept dieing out and he kept trying to phone me back. finally I got through to him...I feel like I'm making the situation worse for no reason...but I just feel like we are not close enough...he should be my best friend...he said that since my family was never there for me...that he wold be there for me...why are guys so complicated to understand???