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Originally Posted by sunshineinthecity
I am able to stay away - I felly guilty not sending presents and not going to
holiday parites- but I shouldn"t
I am better staying away
I have started going different places so I won't run into them and I moved across town
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It does make us feel guilty
at first and then we realize we feel so much better not being around them.
Sunshine, you are not only dealing with the deaths of your parents, you are now dealing with mean-spirited people.
Two tremendously painful things...be as kind to yourself as you possibly can, please.
It's good that you have moved and very good that you are not going places where they will be.
It will get easier to do the more times you stay away and make a new life for yourself.
Please know that I think you are being courageous and determined, and I commend your efforts, Sunshine.
Peace and Power,
Cap
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