Hi Myoasis

Just out of curiosity, but how old is your BF? If your boyfriend is the same age as you (i.e. 20) I wouldn't be expecting so much from him at this point as his #1 priority is getting his education!!

I am not saying that you don't matter, but if he is a fulltime college student studying to be a medical doctor.... his focus, time, and energy should primarily be on his studies. After all, education is expensive and studying to be a medical doctor is very, very difficult!!

Also... at your age (20) you should be looking to have fun-- not worrying so much about having a big time serious relationship with someone.

There will be plenty of time for all that, my dear.

In the meantime, have fun, hang out with your friends when you are not seeing him, and enjoy life.

After all, you're only young once! So chill out, hon and kick up your heels!!

BTW...Are you in college too?

I do hope you are, as education is the key to getting a good, well paying job in today's world.

It is especially important for us women, because "Mr. Knight In Shining Armor" may not come around (or even stay around) to provide for us financially.

All the best,

Peppermint Patty