Sunshine if you really want to get the flipping toxic poison of their crap OUT of your life, do TWO things.

(1) for all things social and emotional -- to get rid of their toxic garbage -- cut all contact. Yes, ALL contact.

• don't call them
• don't let them call you
• change your phone number
• don't email them
• don't let them email you
• block their emails, set up a filter to automatically delete without reading
• change your email address
• don't visit them
• don't permit them to visit you
• if this means moving, then move
• if this means changing your name, even, and your SSN, then do it.

(2) for all things LEGAL -- get yourself a good lawyer.

• reclaim the property they have taken that they have no right to
• if they refuse to leave you alone and keep phoning & emailing, take legal action
• if they refuse to stop visiting you, get a restraining order
• if they won't leave you alone but keep harassing you in ANY way, get a restraining order

START with this. And WORK WITH your attorney and your doctors (if you currently have T and/or p-doc for psych care?) to figure out both how to do these things, to make them work, and where to go from there.

No one will be coming to rescue you, unfortunately. You HAVE to act decisively and firmly -- NOW -- and stick to it.