Not that anyone sends them to me ..but a lot of people have been encouraging others to take it to private messages if there's something about the other person's post that they have a problem with. Might sound like I don't know what that means, I do, I just have trouble with the language

Well anyway, for me that's way more triggering to get that stuff in private than in post, so this is what I'll do
that really shouldn't make any difference though, since I don't really send or receive PM's anyway