TPND, I have learned here that many people put the blame on themselves because this gives them a feeling of control because then everything rests in your hands and this gives you power. What it ends up doing is making you torture yourself with blame. There are better ways to empower yourself............

The thing with these date rapes is that they don't attack you like the stranger rapes so as long as you don't go out with him you will be safe from him.