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Well, he's never really that loud when he is angry, nor is he super aggressive... but he stops caring. He knows when, what, and how to say things so even if he is wrong, he seems right and you end up feeling trapped in a corner, hurting, but too tired and confused so you just give up. When he knows he's going to do something stupid he'll just get up and leave, even though when other people try to do the same he insists that you stay to solve whatever problem you have as a family. He uses past actions against you but whenever you do the same he accuses you of "keeping score". He tells me to listen to myself and the way I say things when he is even worse then I am. He asks for respect but when I lay down a simple boundary he not only acts completely disrespectful, he also tells me to stop being so sensitive when I get mad at him about it. He's not like this all of the time, most of the time is is as he was, but there are a number of times he's like this.
I can't really resent him because of all of his good qualities. I've always loved him, but he's changed a lot (even from a few years ago) and I don't like who he has changed into.
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