Hi, I'm in the process of ending my relationship. I always knew this day was coming but now it is here. In the past I have ended a the relationship with my spouse and then gotten back together. What techniques can I use to really end it? My spouse does have an anger issue and I'm kind of worried that at some point I will need to call the police if it gets out of hand. Any help or feed back would be greatly appreciated. I'm preparing to stick to my guns and not fall back into the relationship (for my sanity and safety).

One idea I have to to break up and move out at some point in the future. The thought of moving out while he is here is unbearable (I've tried it before).

Some of things that I don't like about our relationship:

1) He uses anger to control me
2) Money to control me
3) Doesn't trust me.