Me too, hangingon.
I tried to imagine T outside therapy being the way she in my therapy, being that way all her waking hours. It was too much!
Once I knew someone who is like a T, and she kept analyzing everything I said and could never be anything but right in her interpretations/associations. So I was telling T about something that happened and I said "You don't analyze 24/7 do you?!?" and she said, "No. I'm thinking of being at a dinner table and someone asks to please pass the salt, and thinking 'I wonder what he reeeaallyy meant by that....' " and we laughed.

T is just where I want her