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Apr 07, 2009, 07:39 PM
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Thank you June  
I thought it was a selfish thought because then they probably wouldn't be happy without somebody besides their kids in their lives. The deserve to have a spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend/lover/whatever in their lives if they want one (which they always have).
Well, I havn't told them because I know that my dad gets really defensive and I'd rather not get him really upset. If I told my mom...she would just tell my step dad anyways. I mean, she already knows that we aren't getting along right now, and she just tells me I'm going to have to learn how to cope. I've known him since I was six or so... they were together for about a year before he listened to his kids tell lies about my mom and they broke up...and a few years later they got back together and got married and here we are. My dad has known my to-be stpemom for about 4 years now and purposed to her some time last year, but they have no wedding plans at the moment so who knows how long they are going to stay engaged before actually getting married.
On my stepdad's side I have a stepbrother, who we havn't contacted for years and it's sort of a good thing given his history of abusing people...and two stepsisters, one that I'm pretty neautral towards...she's really nice...but we don't have much in common...and my other stepsister is awesome. She's like the best person ever  on my to-be stepmom's side I have two brothers, one I've hardly met because he's in college downstate. He's a nice guy, a bit mellow...but less so then his brother, who...is a super mellow kind of guy, and he's a little on the weird side...in both the good and the bad way. So over all I like my stepbrother's and sisters...(who by the way, are all older then me!)
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