Thanks everyone for your replies. I know that 2.5-3 months isn't very long, I guess I just don't even think about the length because it feels like it's been longer. Today he called me right as I got out of work...I mean I get out of work at 430 and he called me at 431 lol. And then he talked to me for about 15 minutes and probably would have stayed on the phone longer but I had to go to work (at my second job). Usually he's the type where he calls and we have a 30 second conversation - not much of a phone talker. So I was pretty surprised today when he was being a chatty kathy on the phone.

We are saying it to each other and he actually said it first. At first he was just drawing little hearts on my leg if we were sitting next to each other and little things like that but after only a few days of doing that he actually said it to me.

Ugh, who knows. Guys always say that women are so hard to figure out....I know I just need to be patient, I've just always been the one holding back so I'm not used to it being the other way around. I've always been the one who is never 100% into the relationship so it feels weird to be on the other end. I guess I just wanted to vent or tell someone how I was feeling. But I do know he cares about me so I'm sure we'll get there eventually.

Thanks to everyone for your replies!!!!