After talking to my sister in laws last week, I find out that daughter tried to take advantage of an elderly aunt on my husbands side about 1 1/2 to 2 years ago before the aunt passed away. She had not seen the aunt for years and wanted to go in to her assisted living home and help her go through her things. Now, I know why my daughter did not show up at the aunt's funeral. My sister in laws took care of the problem quietly because they did not want to hurt my feelings. This gal is going to be a big problem out "helping" the elderly. I know that even though she is my daughter, I am not to blame for her actions, but it still hurts.