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Originally Posted by hangingon
I was thinking lately about how we feel about our T's. You know how when you first meet someone, they may seem so cool but the more time you spend with them and the more you know about them, you think emm, they were not who I thought they were.
Anyways, I was thinking of the regarding T's. Like we see them one hour a week maybe two. They listen to our thoughts, needs, let us vent, create a safe enviornment for us ect. But I wonder what we would really think of them if we were to see their weaknesses. To have them snap at us about something. To see them disagree with their significant other, punish their children ect. I just wonder then how we would feel.
I think I am happy to only have that 1 hour with my T, because I would not want that bubble of how cool she is now bursted lol.....
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T said to me once that I imagine she only ever has nice thoughts all day long. I must admit when she said that I thought "eh you mean you don't? "
I'm sure T has done all the things you mention here, but I even more sure she does it in an acceptable way and not in a toxic way like I experienced growing up. plus I'm not sure these are weaknesses. I know I have had disagreements with T during session also, our relationship has had its "moments" but still underneath all off that is a person I respect.