Wow. What a bad situation. I'm so sorry to read about your story. This sounds like a dangerous place to be. Definitely leave.

Do you have some close friends? Maybe you can tell them to remain out of the house just in case you signal them that something is going wrong with your spouse's response? Is this an idea? Maybe they can call the police for you or at least intervene as a group if something happens...

He uses anger and money to control you plus he doesn't trust you. This isn't a relationship. You're like a prisoner. Not healthy. If he is as dangerous as he sounds, once you've told him that you want out....pack your stuff and leave the state! Erase your tracks so that he could never find you again. Start your life again.

Good luck.