Whomever MADE you feel that way should be the one to leave, not you.
Mal hasn't read your posts before but anyone with a signature line like you have, who really means it and tries to be there for others, should not have to be made to feel like they gets driven off.

Wanna talk about it? Feel free to PM if you like (or post here).

If you NEED to scoot for YOUR well being, of course, that would be different -- sometimes Mal has to do that when it gets too tangled up with angst over other people's slanderous misjudgments and hostile opinions -- but don't let anyone drive you off.

Safe & friendly from a stranger (but only if you want one of course).

OH, and before anyone makes accusations of you posting this just because you NEEDED to hear that you matter? Guess what.... that happens to be perfectly legitimate and perfectly OK, and don't ever let anyone make you feel otherwise. We ALL need to feel heard, and feel like we matter to others, and if we need to ask for that or put out a signal to get it? That bes PERFECTLY OK and don't let ANYONE suggest otherwise, ya hear?