I do think that we need to keep in mind that not everyone is as strong as Ryan....so the process is completely different.

Some people are simply not able to do the things Ryan did. Persons with serious mental illness sometimes need more than just a positive attitude to get themselves to try several docs. Some are too afraid to leave their apartments. Sometimes being in therapy makes things worse before they can get better. Discussing childhood abuse, for instance can lead a person to run from therapy too soon. And some people spend so much time in-patient, that their steps ahead are really slow.

All I'm trying to say, is that to paint everyone with the same brush is just not, imo, possible. We are all SO very different when it comes to biology, psychological strengths/weaknesses, and our social environment. I would hate someone to read this thread and consider themselves a loser because they can't change their entire life around in 5 months like Ryan.

It's WONDERFUL that he was able to do this - but many people need more help to make these changes, and simply may not be at a stage where they can access these resources. They need our support and understanding. These are the people who I hold in my heart.

emmy