Your place is here with us Heather. You had an opinion. Part of the right of expressing one's opinion is that others also have the right to express thier opinion.

I know the purpose of your original post was not to create a battle ground or make people feel bad about themselves.

No one has to agree. There is no reason to bicker or cut someone down. For me when people get personal or just plain nasty it pretty much makes thier point null. I don't want to listen to someone who speaks their mind which is good but then in the same breath gets condesending toward another.

Your not doing that and I value your opinion very much. I am sure you didn't expect this thread to turn into a battle of wits and insults.

Don't go away, we need you here. You're so important. Please don't let this ruin it for you.

Special hugs :O)
Heidu

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get for it, but what they become by it.
John Ruskin