Hi Yes,

I think it's a simple equation, we feel ill so we are snappy. When people are feeling fine, they rarely snap.

Maybe we should try to forgive ourselves for showing the strain sometimes, and just be clear with everyone that we are carrying the weight, and that it's hard for us.

Having said all that, I work real hard on keeping my temper, so who am I to advise anyone? Just letting you know that I've been there I guess.

Peaceful thoughts to you, Myzen