You know there is one thing I learned about cheaters, meaning people who are disloyal in their relationship, is once a cheater always a cheater. If they are capable of doing it once and than getting away with it then they are capable of doing it again and believing they could get away with it again. I know this sounds negative, but this is my own personal opinion. I've come across a lot of disloyal people like this, like my sister for example, and they have always been this way and don't look like they're changing anytime soon. You don't deserve this to happen to you, and can you imagine...everytime he walks out the door that **** will be in the back of your mind. Personally, I could never forget it or trust my man if he was to do it to me.