*hugs* dove.. im so sorry about that incident. Have you talked about it with anyone else. Often that helps to get it out. I don't have an answer as to whether you should talk to your dad, but a few things that my T told me was that before you confront you should. Know if your expectations are realistic, Know why you want to confront the person, be prepared for denials and even alienation.... not that you shouldnt confront, but make sure you are prepared..