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Old Apr 10, 2009, 08:32 AM
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Practice the "look" you wish to give him IF your eyes meet. I would ignore and avoid them altogether, but not purposely look for them to stay away from them.

Treat them like any other stranger who might be there, except you DON'T wish to meet them. lol

Let THEM feel awkward instead of you. YOU belong there, you've done nothing "wrong" they are the ones who have "broken" basic societal norms, not you.... let them deal with it.

If he seeks you out and tries to "push" the ring into your face tell him to "get over it." He's hurt you for the last time. You might tell him so.

It IS common for exes to want to remain in contact. It's a type of having the cake and eating it too. Don't allow him the feedback he demands.


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