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Old Apr 10, 2009, 12:27 PM
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My definition of a heavy hand was forcing behavior without understanding. My definition of a heavy hand does not include structure and discipline. Structure and discipline are vital! My definition of discipline is teaching, however, and consequences. It does not include punishment (time outs are used to teach limits not to punish, etc........)
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