Thanks To Everyone,
thanks to all of you who answered, it made me feel better. This is my first negative experience here, but you're all right - I'm not gonna let it discourage me. She kept trying to defend herself by saying "I give people the brutal truth". But I prefer to use the gentle approach because some people are fragile and I didn't want to make them feel worse. I forgot to mention that my pen name over at Q and A is 'Bellacutie' - that's after my dog who's the cutest ever. If you want to take a look at her , she's om my profile. Thanks again!