I read that first paragraph and It's scary how similar we are with our boyfriends.

We met at work and ended up being friends, very good friends but we both were seeign someone else....kind of.

I had an actual boyfriend and he was messin around with his ex (very complicated, messy and confusing, him and his ex)

But, I eventually broke up with the bf and a month later we were together.

THE POINT: It's hard to feel like he's focused totally on you and not on his past. Relationships rarely go smoothly and everyone hits a rocky patch - it's just even harder when it's at the very beginning. If your bf is like mine he can be dumb and annoying but he wouldn't be with you if he didn't want to be.

Talk to him about your insecurities. First, write them down and figure out how you want to address them, be non-threatening. You are poisoned right now and you need to get rid of that. You already know your issues you just need to say them outloud

let me know how it goes! whatever you choose to do!