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Apr 10, 2009, 03:46 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2008
Posts: 49
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Hi peaches100
Yes it was a very long post and I read every word of it and others that you have wrote in the past as well as your responses lonnnnnnnnnng…lol. You write very well. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself, and not giving in to the fear of seeing your former friends. Fear it an ugly thing and that is what holding you back from opening up with others again keep taking baby steps and you will learn how to master it (Fear). You are a sweet loveable and caring person no one in their right minds can say you are not. Your friend had your own issues going on at the time and yes I agree with you that I was counter-transference. The way the friendship ended it was not your fault I am sure you have heard that a million times already but I also wanted to say that too. Sometimes people come into our life at a particular time, and for a particular reason to help us help ourselves. The best thing out of all this is that you were able trusted her so that main you can trust again keep working with your therapist and trust her so you can and will heal your self and continue to live and enjoy life. Sometimes we want our friendships’ to last forever, but nothing really last for ever my dear. I am glad you went and had I great time.
P.S. I love the way you articulate yourself. Happy ester
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