I don't believe this was her intention, I think there is a HUGE lack of communication here and some are getting extremely defensive which is nonproductive to all.
The original post made a statement, people reacted, giving their input, did anyone think a post of that nature wouldn't get a response? EVERYONE here was entitled to reply, due to the fact that it was a public post and not a PM, unfortunately some did not want to see the big picture in regards to spelling/mispelling, etc.
At this point (and not being avoidant) this is another topic/post/reply situation that will have to be dropped, and again all of us try to move on. For goodness sakes isn't there something that WE can talk about without all the defensive, non productive replies lately???
Crazy Aunt Dee has NOT gone miles toward supporting the depressed to stay depressed, re-read her reply and you will see, so far she is a person that is speaking with compassion for others, unlike the others here. . ."just my opinion"
The original post can and will be deleted if Heather so wishes, just say the word, Heather.
Enough said, let's try again to stick to the "main purpose" of support forums instead of turning every post into a major debate. If forums of debate is what our members are seeking, then I think this is the wrong website for it.
Again, like many have said at this thread, "I do not mean to offend anyone here"

"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON