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Old Apr 10, 2009, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Locust View Post
it is true that a higher sex drive might make certain things seem less disgusting and more appetizing, (can't spell)- and perhaps his age or medication is messing with his libido, causing him to think of the "ick" factor more, and it has nothing at all to do with you.
That is what I have been thinking.... and that is what I meant when I said "his age" maybe the main factor here - his testosterone level seem low and are effecting his sex drive already.... going from three times a week down to one time every two weeks over the last few years... to what we have now - the lack of him wanting to give oral sex - that which was hot a sexy when he had lots of testosterone to spare in the good old days.

And I am not trying to figure out the why so much here and to see how other women have dealt with this issue as well as how the men felt if and when this took place with them.... a little FYI for Me.

I am appreciative of the twenty good years we had sexually.... and oh what years they were.