Thread: Defiant Child
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Old Apr 10, 2009, 07:07 PM
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Originally Posted by thelionkinglives View Post
any advice for a stressed out dad with a 13 year old daughter....at 7 I was superman, now I'm her worst enemy & she rolls her eyes at me a hundred times a day...
Hang in There & Don't Worry - You will become her KING again... once she is out of the trying teen years... I Promise.

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Originally Posted by thelionkinglives View Post
in SOME cases the more heavy handed approach can work. Each child is different, just like each adult is different. You want to be careful about making sure caring understanding him not having his dad around, doesn't become an enabler to excuse it.
I agree with you here and while I (the gr-aunt of this child) believes in an equal amount of love & discipline when rearing any child - his mother catered to him when he was young because his dad was around making their life hell and less than enjoyable... and now it angers me that this once sweet trusting boy is the one that has to suffer... I wish I could have ten minutes along with that man in a room with nothing but the dark and the Hulk on my side.