...that T is so patient and consistent and gave me all the time I needed to feel safe with him
...that T listens to my opinions, and is willing to admit when he makes a mistake
...that any emotion or thought that I express is absolutely, 100% okay
...that I ask T to meet my needs, he says "that's EASY"
...that T accepts and loves me and all parts of me, and tells me that as often as I need to hear it
...that T leaves me a voice mail to hang on to after every session
...that I am learning what it feels like to be safe and loved, and that it's helping me recognize that I am safe with and loved by OTHER people too (H and my friends)
...that our relationship is real and true
...that T gave me something very dear to him as a transitional object
I could go on and on...I am so glad he will be back from vacation on Monday and we can finally reconnect!!
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