Hello everyone,

Thank you all for your replies and pm's.

I think I mentioned in an earlier post....when conflict happens I want to avoid it...run and hide. Thinking about leaving is my way of avoidance. I don't think it is a good idea to delete the post...that just gives me something to hide behind. Thank you anyway for the offer. If we can move on and learn from this, all the better.

I did not mean to cause such a discussion....I wasn't expecting such an outpour to tell you the truth. I was thinking more in the lines of when kvinn posted a while ago asking us to paragraph our responses....made us all think and then move on. I have noticed that there is a change in how some of the posts are due to his request. That was all I was thinking. I will be honest...I am still saddened as this post generated so much of a response but yet everyone respected what was asked before....just makes you think you know?

I appreciate all of you and think so much of you all.

Thank you


Heather

"The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails." ~~~author unknown