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Sorry ya'll had to endure such horrible bullying!
I guess I learned at an early stage how to block people out because I don't remember being bullied in Elementary School, and I was home schooled throughout my Middle School years. So that just left me with High School to deal with.
There is a point in which a person forbids to allow someone else to control their emotions. Like I can care less about the other students or what they do and only pay attention to the teachers/administrators because I have to. When someone is being mean or calling you names...just flash a grin at them and don't let on they are getting to you. Or you could look right through them giving your infamous look of "I wouldn't care if you were laying on a sidewalk bleeding, I'd step right over you & keep going" also giving no reaction to their abusive ways will eventually get under there skin even more. They will get bored quicker with you and leave you alone faster.
I think I've mastered this... because I honestly don't care what people say about me now. That might not be a good thing per se, but it works. So after being told that I reject people before they can reject me.... I see it more or less as at least I'll never have to say the words "goodbye".
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