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Apr 11, 2009, 05:37 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Hi.....
First and foremost....self care is the MOST important thing. 
If you are not comfortable with what is going on in the family at the moment, I think it is perfectly fine to stay home and have a peaceful Holiday as opposed to one wracked with anger, rage, and pain.
I do not think this makes you the BAD one...Not at all!! 
I can imagine it must be difficult with your husband requesting you go. I also think he needs to try and see things from your perspective.
Just a thought....if you guys have more than one car...you could drive over separately, together, and you could stay for a while, and when you were ready to step out, you could leave any time you like.
Better yet....I don't have any plans for Easter....Just come over to my house!! 
Seriously though, I wish you peace for your Holiday, and if that means staying home to take care of yourself, then that's what it means.
Happy Holidays to you!! 
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