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Originally Posted by Perna
I use to explain to my T how "hearing" what she had to say was like being shot with arrows/shocked with electricity? It was so painful! It took me so long to be able to tolerate talking to her/that closeness. I saw her for 9 years (1978-1987) and then another 9 years (1996-2005) and consider the 9 years "in-between" as therapy too! So, it took me almost 30 years to heal!
Get that logic/head back in there working for you! I found it invaluable.
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Perna - do you ever have contact with your therapist now that you are both retired? I have been seeing my therapist for about 17 years now and she is the absolute best!! I have learned so much about myself and continue to grow with her support...For me touch with her is not an issue - she hugs me and puts her arm around me - she always asks if it is ok before doing it. Touch with other people now that is an issue...