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Apr 12, 2009, 02:45 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Hi,
I don't post in this section too often.
I have to say that I can agree with Christina86's and LizzyB's points of view. I'm sorry you are having to feel like you have to choose. 
It does sound like your gf may be attempting to manipulate you...possibly...to see how much she can get by. 
That being said, there truly could be some emotional reason for your cat to be triggering her. Maybe she had a bad experience with a cat that looks like Fifi a long time ago. 
Regardless....I also agree that this is something that your gf should be working out in treatment. I would suggest not getting rid of the cat. It is your baby, and hopefully, your gf is your baby, just in another way. But just getting rid of the cat and avoiding the underlying issue is not going to help your gf in the long run. I would think it would be a better thing to face this irrational issue than to just run away and avoid it. 
Good luck to you, your gf, and your furry family!! 
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