I thought that same thing about the T sending someone to talk to you. On one hand I thought, well, he must think you have alot to offer to do such a thing in refering someone to speak to you. On the other hand, what if you were not in a state to do such a thing? What if you didn't want other people to know you were in a group. That part is a little sketchy to me. If he had asked your ok to that first that would have been totally different.