Yes, these ladies have offered great advice. And I totally agree, it's great to not rush it. I rushed my first time and pretended I had more experience than I did to impress the guy. Looking back, I wish I'd just embraced the newness and not judged myself. And the TV thing is so true! It takes time to figure out what feels right and find a partner who is right for you. I hope that when you have your first time it's with someone who is fun, caring, and respects you!