So I moved away from my BF several months ago. We'd met while I was living in a place far from home. I really didn't like it, couldn't make money, and wanted to move home. He didn't know if he wanted to move somewhere else with me, so, heartbroken and confused, I thought the best thing would be to move back and see what would happen. Three months later, he's had ups and downs about where our relationship will go (as have I), my work life is going great back at home though. Things are good. While he says he wants a future with me, the only concrete plan he's made to be together is to plan a quick visit coming up. Without any real sign that we'll have a long term future, this visit just makes me feel more sad. While I'm proud of how I've made a new life here, I feel like he'll find my life boring, and wonder why I don't have a more vibrant social life. Moreover, without knowing where things are going, I jus think I'll feel sad. Lately, when we talk on the phone, he barely asks about what I'm up to and always says he can't talk long. Without feeling support from him in the present, I'm so nervous about the visit and wonder what's the point. So confused. How should I approach this situation?