"how do I make him" is not a great way to go about life (IMO) especially when it comes to relationships. Your story sounded great up until I read that last line. It was full of truth and honesty. Well, if you're honest - you come out and say "I want a relationship with you - do you think that will happen?" In another way - you are saying what you want rather than making him *do* what you want. That's more natural.

Time is your friend here. Spend time with him and if the relationship will happen. The best relationships are not forced.