Oh yes, that is something I believe whole heartedly, She was here with me for a short while to teach me something. I think I learned several things. A very big one was more/deeper compassion for people then before.
I can't imagine what your little girl was supposed to learn...maybe not to be afraid of dying...that it doesn't hurt or that papa will always be with her??? I hope she isn't taking that too hard. I can't imagine what my kids would do in that position.