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Originally Posted by magz88
aww thanks. it's hard to explain without demonizing or making excuses for him. I used to think it was a black and white subject and everything is perfect until i found this out. my friends and family adore him, he's a genuinely good person and he has matured a lot. he was just very dumb and doesn't realize where his actions will take him and that may be the one thing that totally screws up his love life
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If it makes you feel better to explain then feel free. I can't speak for anyone else but I won't judge him personally. I've lived long enough to know very few things are black & white.
My wife's best friend was cheating on her husband, who I worked with...I was the whistle blower
My conscience couldn't take it
Well...my wife was ticked for a while because I put her in an awkward position, my wife's friend blamed me for him leaving her & he was pissed I took a month to tell him
So then I let my wifes frind move in with us rent free until she got back on her feet. They are both married to other people & much happier...but both still hate me
But atleast MY conscience is clean
I did what I felt was right
As for him being a good person but dumb...to quote Ron White "you can't fix stupid"
