I too know how you feel some what. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year an a half we have a child together and before when I was pregnant he would always go hang with friends and wouldnt be back untill 5 in the mourning. I put up with it because he was the father of my unborn child. We would argue and hed say go out and do something yourself. Which he drove all my friends away because he didnt like any of them and I didnt have my own vehicle so what was I to do. He knew I couldnt do anything. Then I had the child and he will do some of his old stuff and he always makes it sound like he has it so rough. He doesnt have a job and I work go to school and he says he cant handle our daughter on his own. Its hard and I love him he gave me a beautiful little girl but sometimes I cant stand him. I know this doesnt help much but i know kinda in a sense of what you are going through