I tried the ammends- it is worse
I have to go my own way- stop calling to say hello, sending gifts and
cards and trying to be so nice to everyone- inlcuding relatives on both sides
I have not been given a chioce-cruel emails from inlaws-brother won't give
me my belongings and on and on - I was the caretaker - they were hardle ever there when my parents needed them- my parents were so giving and caring