Stay strong and find a job, that has to be your first priority....try to look for a job in your home town where you have family and friends to support you....then you can tell him that you are moving....I know it's easy to say, but you got to do something....
It looks like you are on an unhealthy relationship...so, all of us are in bad relationships sometimes in our life...
Right now, I am in one of them...I even don't know if I'm in a okay relationship or bad one....but he does stuff that is pretty much pissing me off....I don't like the fact that he's too much into clubing and dancing and women....ah...it makes me feel throw up....but he's a new relationship and I got to see how it goes....but I don't think I'm in for all his b.s...
We got to be strong and when you act strongly, they are all over you....trust me...
take care
Marjan