(((((Junerain))))))),

Just remember, I have a few dozen years of headaches I have had to deal with already......by the time you get to this point your wisdom will have grown immensely....things will make more sense & the correct actions will come to you.

Honestly, sometimes I have to sit back for a few days to clear my mind so it can realize what action needs to be taken next. Sometimes that is why it takes me so long to resolve problems, but when I feel it's taking a long time, others wonder how I an figure out the solution so quickly. What feels like forever to me seens like a short while to others. The difficult experiences we go through the more knowledge we get on how to handle life.....guess that is one good thing about getting older...lol.

Just keep living & learning from life & you will continue to gain wisdom. I know there are areas you have experienced & have knowledge in where your wisdom shines......it is just part of life that our wisdom grows out of our experiences.....so in some ways, we should be happy for the experiences we have otherwise we would not have the wisdom we have gained......there is always good that comes from the bad.....sometimes we have to look harder than others to find it.

Debbie